When parents decide to separate it can be a very difficult time for everyone involved. The age of the child needs to be considered when determining how involved they should be the decisions concerning the arrangements for them. Babies and toddlers will obviously have little understanding of what is happening and wouldn’t be able to … Continue reading Direct Consultation for Children over the age of 10
This is obviously a massive topic and a very complex one. It is very important to point out that children can react very differently to situations and no two families are the same either. It is also important to emphasise that children become stressed in any situation where they don’t feel secure, so it can … Continue reading Insecurities in Children with Separated Parents
Mediation Awareness Week (MAW) is nationally recognised and supported by all of the leading professional mediation bodies in the UK. Organised by Mediation Awareness Group, the week is a culmination of UK events, seminars and simulations for Mediators.
Going back to school in September can be a tough time for children, as it marks the end of the long care free summer holidays. There will be new teachers to get to know and possibly new class mates too. It could be that your child is starting school for the first time, going into … Continue reading Children Back to or Starting School – Tips for Separated Parents
The Summer Holidays are nearly upon us and if you have kids you know only too well that keeping them entertained is important for your sanity, whatever their ages. To help you, we have pulled together a diverse list of events, festivals and campsites to appeal to families in Bristol and the surrounding areas. Festivals … Continue reading What to do in Bristol this Summer with the Kids 2017
This month’s blog post is written by a Mum in Bristol who has followed the route of shared parenting for over two years now since separating from her husband. Of course, all separated couples will have a different experience of shared parenting and the way they choose to do things but the following insights are … Continue reading Shared Parenting after separation – The Highs and Lows
Father’s Day is on the 18th June this year (2017), this can be difficult for separated couples to manage and possibly distressing for the children if the situation isn’t handled well. Here are some top tips to keep everyone happy and ensure in particular that the children don’t suffer:
Ideally, mediation sessions for separating couples work best if both parties can be present in the same room with their mediator. However, this is not always possible with people living far away from each other with heavy work commitments or perhaps child care issues. Some couples may even live in different countries after they separate. … Continue reading Long Distance Mediation via Skype for Separating Couples
Attachment theory has it that an infant’s first main relationship is significant in moulding personality, self-esteem, future relationships, stress management and coping abilities in later life. The emotional bond formed with our primary care-giver matters hugely and recent research has emphasised the importance of multiple-influencers and supportive parenting relationships. Whether the primary care-giver is mum, … Continue reading Attachment Bonding in Parent and Child Relationships
In many of our blogs we have looked at the emotional effect of parents’ separation on the children involved. Fighting and involving the children in the disputes will cause stress and anxiety, putting unnecessary psychological burdens on to young shoulders.
Deciding to divorce or separate when you have children can be a hard decision to make. Depending on your circumstances and the reasons for the break up can mean a very different experience for different separating couples. Some will dither over the decision for years, wracked with guilt about what impact the split may have … Continue reading Putting The Children First After Separation
This year Family Mediation Week is the 23rd to the 27th January (2017). The aim is to raise awareness of how mediation can help separating families resolve their issues in a collaborative way. January is often a time for reflection and new beginnings and this can mean couples realising their differences cannot be overcome and … Continue reading Family Mediation Week 2017 – 23-27 January
The Inheritance Act 1975 provides a route where someone can make a claim against the deceased’s estate on the basis that the deceased’s Will or intestacy does not make any or sufficient financial provision for them. It is designed to help spouses, children, civil partners, cohabitees and other surviving dependents that have not been provided … Continue reading Inheritance Act or Will Dispute Mediations
In our last post, we talked about how to understand and help younger children through their parent’s separation. In this post, we will look at how to understand and help teenagers through a family break up. Teenagers are already at a difficult stage in their lives, with emotions up and down and the pressures of … Continue reading Understanding and Helping Teenagers through Divorce or Separation
Divorce or separation is a difficult time for everyone involved, including extended family and of course the children. Whatever the age of the children, they will feel a great sense of loss, confusion and uncertainty. Although to a certain extent this can’t be avoided once the decision to go your separate ways has been made; … Continue reading Children Under 11 – Understanding their Confusion after Separation
One of the things that can be easily overlooked when parents split up, is that the relationship the children have with their grandparents can be disrupted. It may be that one parent no longer wishes the children to have contact with their ex-spouses parents, or perhaps they move a long way away – this can … Continue reading Grandparents Rights to see their Grandchildren after Parents Separate
The summer holidays are upon us and for most parents this means a lot of juggling of childcare if both parents work. Holiday clubs and activity days are expensive and not really a viable option to cover the whole six week holiday. So, for separated or single parents who have work commitments, the holidays can … Continue reading 10 Free Things to do in Bristol this Summer
After divorce or separation, one of the most challenging things for the children to deal with is when a new partner comes onto the scene. Not only is their world turned upside down by the separation, but any hopes they had of their parents getting back together will be dashed. We posted a while ago … Continue reading The Challenges of Becoming a Step Mum or Dad – How to Bond with Step Children
I thought it might be helpful to write about parental alienation, because in some form or another it comes up fairly regularly in mediation. At its worst parental alienation is the deliberate manipulation of a child by one parent into fear, dislike and hostility of the other parent. It can result in a child refusing … Continue reading Parental Alienation – What is it?
Family mediation sessions for separating parents are a good way to discuss and resolve arrangements for the children. This could be working out a rota or timetable of when each parent will spend time with the children, how school holidays can be managed between the parents, as well as any financial disputes for maintenance payments. … Continue reading Tips on how to Prepare for Family Mediation regarding Children’s Arrangements